What If People Are Staring at Me During My Photoshoot?

When I ask new clients, “What’s something you don’t want from your online dating photoshoot?”
The #1 answer, hands down?

“I don’t want people staring at me during the photoshoot.”

Totally fair.

Max, one of my recent clients, said it perfectly:

“A lot of people staring at me would make me feel very self-conscious. To the extent that can be avoided would be good.”

And honestly? I get it.

You’re already doing something outside your comfort zone.
You’re trying to show up with confidence.
You want to feel attractive—not like you're on display.

So here’s how I set things up to make sure that doesn’t happen:

💡 I schedule weekday sessions

We shoot during the quiet hours, when streets and public spots are less crowded—so you’re not navigating a sea of people while trying to feel confident.

💡 I scout low-traffic, photogenic locations

Think charming neighborhoods, tucked-away courtyards, cozy alleys, and little corners of the city where the light hits just right—but the foot traffic stays light.

💡 We start where you can ease in

Private or semi-private spots are perfect for warming up—sometimes my studio, sometimes a peaceful garden or a quiet café patio. You get comfortable before we move to more open areas.

And once we’re rolling?

You’ll be so focused on following my cues and instructions that you won’t have time to worry about who’s around.

I’ll guide you every step of the way—how to stand, where to look, what to do with your hands. We’ll keep things moving so you’re never left wondering what to do next.

By the time we get to your third outfit or location, something shifts.
You're walking with ease, posing yourself, even cracking jokes.
That’s when the magic happens.

You’re not being watched.
You’re being supported.

So if fear of an “audience” has been holding you back from booking your photoshoot—know this:

I’ve already planned around it.
You’re not alone in feeling this way.
And when you’re ready, I’ve got you.

Ready to feel confident in front of the camera—without an audience?

Let’s make it easy.
My online dating photoshoots are designed to keep things low-key, comfortable, and strategic—so you can show up as your most attractive, authentic self.

📍 Sessions are offered monthly in the DC area
📆 Booking fills up 1–2 months in advance

Click here to see upcoming dates and book your session →

Or, if you’re not quite ready but want to learn more, send me a message. I’m happy to talk it through.